I clearly remember when my cousin graduated from university, she had dinner with the whole extended family. During the dinner she was being questioned by everyone why she was not getting married. All the uncles, aunts, parents and grandparents tried to connivence her to start preparing the ceremony before they themselves get too old to help her for her ceremony. My cousin broken down in tears many times during this night, and whenever she raised her own opinions on her own marriage, she was being blamed not being responsible.
She got married a half year later.